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An incredible clip from April of this year tackled this issue, branding it "sexual racism." Note: This is way different from having preferences.It's about ruling out entire groups of people because of stereotypes or because you think there's no way you could be attracted to them.
Christian has seen profiles declaring that they're interested in every race except black women, and someone once told her "her kind" wasn't "good enough to date." Another guy said he'd "always wanted to try a black girl" because rumor had it we're like "sexual toys." "I cried that night [after I got that message]," says Christian.
In contrast to black women, who every racial group except black men rated as less attractive than average, all the men in the study rated Asian and Latina women as more attractive than average.
(And all groups rated white women as more attractive than average except black men.) Of course, people finding a woman more attractive than average doesn't mean they won't be racist to her, just that they might shift gears and do it in a different way."I went on a date with a guy from Tinder who had an Asian fetish, but I didn't realize until halfway through," Jenny C., 25, an Asian-American woman in Washington, D. "He started talking about how sexy these Asian dancers were, and I also found out that pretty much every other girl he'd seen on Tinder was Asian.
But it doesn't really bother her in person, and it likely wouldn't online. Some from a lack of education, others because they're from a different culture, and some are just plain stupid.
But it's never felt intentional," she explains.