Dating friends of ex boyfriends
The second factor, which may seem contradictory, is that it depends on how much you invested in and loved the ex-boyfriend.I can honestly say there are some ex-boyfriends that, if they find happiness, God bless them, because I know it was crazy between us.That would mean I might run into one of them occasionally and see him look at my friend the same way he once looked at me.Even if you're no longer with the person who you once thought to be the love of your life, how could you stomach that person being with your friend?I say it is never, ever OK to date your ex’s friend.It just leaves too many things to chance, things that could not only backfire and ruin your relationship, but also destroy the friendship he has with his friend in the process.
But such a conversation shows respect for all involved and gives you time to deal with the potential ick factor of seeing them happy." This is the status I was greeted with this week on the Facebook page of one of my dear girlfriends.My knee-jerk response was "Duh, who wouldn't be pissed?"Once loved" are the operative words here Too often, women become territorial, trying to mark our men as if past loves are actually possessions that we own for life.If you have moved on from this person, you really should not take issue with who they are with now.
The last comment on my friend's Facebook page said it best: "We don't owe or own anyone when it comes to happiness.