Dating a man with child
Well, she’s a kid and doesn’t understand her mom’s need for male companionship.” In response to her daughter’s fears, this mom has asked her boyfriend to slow down. “I want to give the daughter time to accept and trust a new man in their lives. I’m a single guy, and I get a bit lonely.” In the meantime, the mom has made it very clear that she cares about him, but she’s afraid.
“But sometimes she reminds me that her mom is just fine without me!
Blaming your tactic, you vow to yourself to bring it up more casually next time.
Then you raise it in a joking way—maybe while watching a sitcom about the horrors of potty training, you say, “You’ll be in charge of potty training when we have kids, ha!
You find yourself making excuses for him, rationalizing his poor choices, and working to see things from his perspective more than your own.
The school principal talked to the girl, who said she had been having sex with Hernandez, and showed the principal text messages between them.
The girl told an investigator with the Harris County Sheriff's Office that she had been dating Hernandez for about four months.
The “nag” always gets the bad press, but when you look deeper, the nagging is usually the result of someone not taking full responsibility for himself and his actions.
However, just like parenting a teenager, each time you nag you enable his behaviors.
He admitted having sex with the victim, court documents state.